Sunday, 28 February 2010

The big 3-0!

I turned 30 this week.  I never thought I would get this old.  I've definitely noticed a couple mature changes over the past little while.  Like, I'll eat onions, and I even ate a salad with tomatoes this week.  I'm sure there are more to come.  Kali has been wishing me a happy birthday for a solid week, I love it, she seriously ROCKS.  She wrapped up some of my stuff in a towel and hid it in her room till Thursday morning, she was so excited to give it to me, another reason I love her.  She is so excited about many simple things, and she loves me more than anyone. 

I also had a SWEET cake delivered at about 5:30am on my birthday, I woke up to Grandma's musical phone call and found a chocolate cake on the table, it made my day, and I just finished eating the last piece this morning for breakfast.  I sure like cake.  Spence surprised me by coming home from work at his regular time, he thought he would have to stay and finish a project.  We had steak, wings and a berry/peach salad, I wish I could live on meat alone.  Another couple friends dropped off a Pavlova after dinner, it was so good, I was pretty spoiled.  Last night, I went out with some friends for dessert to celebrate another friends birthday, it was so fun to visit.  They even paid for our dessert.

So now that I'm 30, I have thought of some goals for life, one includes becoming better at doing service.  I love helping people, I think I honestly do it for others and not for myself.  I love making things easier for my friends especially, but maybe I should branch out a bit more.   I'm excited to see what the future holds.

Sunday, 21 February 2010

Kali had all week off school, she starts again tomorrow.  I asked her if she's excited to go back to school... she said no.  I asked her who she missed the most from school and she said Ms. Werner, she really has a wonderful teacher.  We tried to have fun each day, we had a couple different friends over a couple of days, we went skating, played games, and baked cookies.  I like hanging out with Kali, she's a great girl, I hope she likes hanging out with me too.

Friday, we went to pick our truck from the shop, it was supposed to be finally finished and ready to go.  When I went to start it, it wouldn't start.  The fuel pump is dead.  Nice.  Well at least it's parked where they can fix it and we don't have to tow it to the garage (count your many blessings name them one by one).  Maybe next week we'll have it back.  I'm not sure how I feel about this truck, I have mixed feelings.  We bought it in B.C. so it has to have an out of province inspection, which is a pain, and we have to fix a lot of things on it.   Although at least when ALL those things are done we know that we shouldn't have to fix those things again.  I hope Spence really likes this truck cause he's going to have it for a long time.

Friday was also the BEST day because Kali got to go to the Cinderella Ballet... with her other Mother, Erin.  I personally hate ballet and never care to see one, but Kali loves that sort of thing, I am indebted to her now.  Kali loved the ballet and came home dancing, but apparently thought the men in tights were gross,  I can't blame her.  The other awesome part was that I got to watch some great basketball.  My cousins were in town from Barnwell for two tournaments and they ROCK!! Brianne plays for the Rebels in Taber, and Brandon plays for Barnwell, they are both awesome, and kicked some major trash.  I love watching sports, so this was a great day for me.

Saturday, we went to Taber to visit Spencer's family, we visited and ate wings (my favorite).  Kali loved playing with her cousins,  I didn't see her the whole time.  We went to Ryan and Tonya's new house, it's almost done, and WOW, it's amazing.  I told Spence he better not take me there anymore, I get too jealous, jk.

Sunday, 14 February 2010

I'm Re-Energized.

I got home from Las Vegas early Friday morning, I went with my bestest friend (besides Spencer), Erin.  We left last Sunday and flew out of Great Falls.  We stayed at South Point Hotel, it's a mile or so south of the strip, it was a nice place.  I really liked that it was far from the craziness of the strip, I'd recommend it and we got Bath and Bodyworks in our room. I would say that we saw more than we wanted to in some regards, Las Vegas means different things depending on your purpose.  I found the hotels very fancy and physically clean, but morally filthy.  We spent some of our afternoon at the Shark Reef Aquarium, it was cool, we touched Stingrays and saw lots of cool animals.  We checked out M&M world, the Lion Habitat at MGM Grand, and a couple hotels.  Our goal was to see a show, and we had a few to choose from,  I was glad that we got to go to "The Lion King" at Mandalay Bay.  It was amazing, the puppets are so interesting, Erin and I wondered how some of them worked and had our own theories... We ate at the Bellagio... I was disappointed, I thought it would be better, but I have simple tastes so I can't not recommend it.  We ate great breakfasts and found a Cafe Rio, and I actually didn't gain a pound, must have been from all the walking and eliminating. 
We only spent a day and a half in Vegas, then we drove to California.  Our other purpose for the trip was to go to Disneyland, it was fun but different going without children or even being one.  I dragged Erin on some fast rides, we shopped, we ate some great parmesan, garlic fries, we laughed a lot and just had fun, it was so good.  That night we went to Cold Stone, pounded some great ice cream (cake batter with Reese's PB cups), and went to Huntington Beach.  We walked the pier, talked, took pictures, found sea shells, and played in the water, this might have been a highlight for me.
 I'm glad our husbands let us go together and managed the kiddies, they are so amazing.  The biggest highlight of the trip was hanging out with Erin, we had so much fun.  We had lots of driving time to talk, and laugh and get to know each other better.  Thank you Erin, that trip Rok(ed) my socks off, I'll never forget it.

Saturday, 30 January 2010

Well,  I had a great week!  I have decided that I love being a stay at home Mom.  Although I am thinking about opening a preschool at my house for September, but there are lots of things to do.  I love this idea and have felt REALLY good about it.  We'll see what happens I guess.

I have been working on my kitchen cabinets, Spencer's Uncle and Aunt gave us their old light Oak cabinets and they have been sitting in my back porch for a year.  I am sanding them all down to the bare wood and staining them a natural color.  I've been using a disk sander, which has saved a lot of time, but the grooves are killing my hands, if anyone has any tips, I'd really appreciate it.  And my back room is really dusty, I might just start doing it outside in the back yard to save my lungs and the mess.  My plan is to do a couple doors per week and have them finished by April or May.  I have huge plans for my kitchen, involving taking out a wall, buying a corner lazy Susan from a used cabinet shop and making a eating counter.

Spence and Kali have been sick this week, Kali stayed home most of the week and Spence stayed home Thursday and Friday.  I'm sure I'll get it next week.

My great friend, Erin Wallace, and I are flying to Las Vegas next Sunday.  I am SOO excited!!  We are going without kids, totally unsupervised, it going to be sweet!  We are planning on spending a day in Vegas and we're renting a car to drive to Las Angeles to hit some beaches and DISNEYLAND!  We booked our trip a couple weeks ago and got some great deals, we organized our kids and husbands, and we've been planning all the fun stuff we are going to do.  Only one more week!!

I LOVE MY LIFE!

Wednesday, 20 January 2010

Soddom and Gommorah in Haiti?

I may receive some interesting comments about this post, and that's okay.  It's my blog, I can write whatever I want to.  I'm kinda sick of hearing about Haiti, I AM sorry that there are children going without food and water in Haiti.  But really, Haiti is a very dangerous place, I read some articles about Haiti about a year ago stating that it was a very dangerous place to visit/vacation.  I remember reading that Canadians were being robbed, kidnapped, killed... I never had any desire to go there.  I am not super surprised that they were shook by a quake that killed hundreds of thousands.  I found another article posted by the U.S. government:

There are no "safe” areas in Haiti. There is a persistent danger of violent crime, which can be subject to periodic surges sometimes not obviously explained by other events or conditions.  Haiti is among the four most important countries for drug transit to the United States.  Law and order in Haiti has steadily deteriorated as a result.  Kidnapping, death threats, murders, drug-related shootouts, armed robberies, home break-ins and car-jacking are common in Haiti. Generally, these crimes are committed by Haitians against other Haitians, although several foreigners and U.S. citizens have been victimized. The incidence of kidnapping in Haiti has diminished from its peak in 2006 when 60 U.S, citizens were reported kidnapped.  In 2008, there were 27 reported kidnappings of U.S. citizens, and as of September 2009, one U.S. citizen had been reported kidnapped. Many U.S. citizens who were kidnapped reported being beaten and/or raped by their hostage takers. Kidnapping remains the most critical security concern.  Kidnappers have frequently targeted children.

U.S. citizens who travel to Haiti should exercise a high degree of caution throughout the country. Travelers should keep valuables well hidden, ensure possessions are not left in parked vehicles, use private transportation, alternate their travel routes, and keep doors and windows in homes and vehicles closed and locked. U.S. citizens should avoid all night-time travel due to poor road conditions and increased criminal activity after dark. They should be alert for suspicious onlookers when entering and exiting banks, as criminals often watch and subsequently attack bank customers. Withdrawals of large amounts of cash should be avoided.
Criminal perpetrators often operate in groups of two to four individuals, and may occasionally be confrontational and gratuitously violent. Criminals sometimes will seriously injure or kill those who resist their attempts to commit crime. In robberies or home invasions, it is not uncommon for the assailants to beat or shoot the victim in order to limit the victim's ability to resist. If an armed individual demands the surrender of a vehicle or other valuables, the U.S. Embassy recommends compliance without resistance. This recommendation also applies in the event of a kidnapping. Visitors to Haiti should exercise caution at all times and review basic personal security procedures frequently.
U.S. citizens in Haiti must be particularly alert when arriving from overseas at the Port-au-Prince airport, as criminals have often targeted arriving passengers for later assaults and robberies. The use of public transportation, including "tap-taps" (private transportation used for commercial purposes) should be avoided. Visitors to Haiti should arrange for someone known to them to meet them at the airport. 
Taken from http://travel.state.gov/travel/cis_pa_tw/cis/cis_1134.html


My opinion is pretty clear, Heavenly Father is taking care of his people.  If some children have to die... what a blessing for them rather than to grow up in Haiti.  And I'm thinking those people need a little more than food and water.

Saturday, 9 January 2010

The start of a new decade

We've been home for a week now, I think we're settled in. It sure was amazing to have a two week holiday. I've noticed it has taken some people all week to get back to normal routine, one of the ladies at work has been calling people by the wrong name. She called Miss Neufeld, Seinfeld, and Mrs Lewry, Flurry, it made me laugh and want ice cream at the same time. Luckily, I didn't have a hard time getting back into the swing of things, Monday came without much notice.
Kali is happy to be back at school and I'm glad she's there, although, I did miss her. She's learning about space this month, the stuff she is learning now is so up to date, my knowledge is foggy and from 20some years ago. She told me this week that she knows more about everything than I do, so I had to prove her wrong... 5+5? 10+10? She sat quietly in the back seat, HA, I do know a little more than you. Funny thing, I thought I knew more than my Mom, and I still think I do.
Spence is working hard on some Energy Audits and a couple re-designs, he actually had to stay late Wednesday night. A friend called for him while he was at work, his friend told me that I should have a hot dinner ready for him when he got home. I said "if he's not here when we eat, too bad", I was chastised to show a little compassion, and that was my plan.... until I fell asleep putting Kali to bed. Spence is a good man, he re-heated his dinner and washed all the dishes.
My highlight of my week was Volleyball night, Tuesday. Our stake does women's volleyball from 8:30-10:30pm. It was REALLY fun, it took me a few minutes to get my game on and my serve. Luckily no one is too competitive, we have all ranges of talent (and patience).
I dragged Spence and Kali to the Arena last night to watch some Ringette, we watched 7 year old, and 12 year old girls. I loved it!!! I had to tell Spence the rules as it went, and Kali was making friends, running around not even watching the game. I really wish she was more interested in sports, that's almost reason enough to want more children.
Well I'm looking forward to using the new manual tomorrow at church, and for our new 11am time slot.

Sunday, 3 January 2010

The Greatest Vacation EVER!

We got home from Nauvoo last night, it sure was nice to be out of the car and to sleep in my own bed. We went to visit Mom and Dad Torrie on their mission. I loved the one on one time we could have with them, we had a blast. Mom and I played some games, not near enough though, she hasn't played in a while and when I beat her it was just like old times. I loved seeing Mom and Dad as church history missionaries, Mom loves history, she knows so much. When we would meet other missionaries they would say one of two things about Mom, either that she is such a hard worker or runs around like a crazy lady ( I think they were jealous of all her energy and zest for life). What a great example she is to us and our Kali.

Dad is having lots of fun in Nauvoo too, he is a teamster who takes care of the horses, he gives site tours and just like Mom they perform in a great musical called "Rendezvous in Old Nauvoo" Dad and Mom are so talented. We went to their show 3 times while we were there and recorded most of it on our camera. I loved the songs and the stories.



I loved Christmas in Nauvoo, really I think it was the best time for us to go. I hate the crowds and the busyness of big family Christmases, and I loved having Mom and Dad all to ourselves. We saw all the sites, my favorties were: Carthage Jail, the Blacksmith shop, Lucy Mack Smith home, John Taylor home, Brigham Young home, the mansion house that belonged to Joseph Smith and the Family Living Center. All the sites were really great, although having so many things that Kali couldn't touch was almost too much for her (and us). There is a special spirit in Nauvoo, especially at the Temple and the LDS sites. We went on a community of Christ tour, I sure wished our church owned those sites too, it would have been amazing. My testimony of the prophet Joseph Smith has increased and my appreciation for the Saints at that time increased too. I've been to many places and this is my favorite so far. Thanks to Mom and Dad for serving the visitors to Nauvoo and the Lord. Here are a couple of pictures of Mom and Dad, I love how you can see the name tags.

Elder Torrie after a long day.

Sister Torrie after a long day